Black life can get very complicated. When you are married to the man of your dreams, life is suppose to be less complicated since you are secure in your relationship. You and your husband have a wonderful family that includes children and life is great. Suddenly, you find out your man has cheated. More than cheated. He has a child by this woman or side-chick. That is exactly what we are hearing about Wendy Williams and husband Kevin Hunter.
Every tabloid is calling Kevin a cheater and named the other woman and announced the date the baby was born. Listen, I would not believe it to be true if it was not for so many tabloids giving us blow by blow of Wendy’s relationship pain as well as her sobriety being in question. How much is Wendy supposed to take! Geez!
In the Black community these kinds of relationships existed for years. I know a woman who was the pillar of the community, known to love children, Sunday school teacher, and mother of the church among various noble life titles. She and husband had 7 girls. Then, she discovered his years of infidelity with another woman who had given birth to his son. The other woman died and he had to take his son home to his wife to rise. And, she did. Another woman took in 3 of her husband’s outside children from the same woman who just didn’t want them even-though she kept her other 4 children. My last example is the shock and surprise when a friend discovers her father has a family on the other side of town who are grown with children.
Wendy hang in there it’s obvious you want your husband to stay or you would’ve announce his departure. Either he stays or he goes, just make sure you are ok either way. You first, Black girl magic!
Pray for Wendy Williams.